The slave spirit!

Being a slave is a complex way of being, with many facets and often conflicting emotions and desires. Many of us make the mistake to think or assume that a good slave has no will of their own, nor should they have any desires or requirements, which is simply not true or healthy.

Being a slave is not something you can learn in any classroom, but it is more of a raw way of being, a certain mental attitude which over time will and must be polished by the right person. There are thousands of people suited to being playthings, sexual pets, sluts and subs, but there are only a select few who are truly intended for the path of BDSM slavery.

For those rare and gifted individuals this path is nothing short of a must in order for them to fill a deep dark void in their life. They go far beyond simple wishes to please the one they love, but often take immense amounts of discomforts to make the life of the ONE they serve one of easy or at minimum better.

A true slave will feel self perceived failures extreme and often “punish” their own shortcomings of service more severely then even their Dom/me would. A slave does not seek excuses and reasons not to do something, but rather seeks a way of filling the requirements of their Master/Mistress.

A slave does not have secrets from their Master/Mistress of any kind.  He/she does not hide anything from them, be it either good or bad, since their entire being – mind, body and soul – belong to the ONE they serve. Now if you know me by now you would realize that me capitalizing the word ONE is not internet BS Jargon, but pushing forward that there is only ONE PERSON they need to serve and hold this all inclusive care, love and respect for. That ONE is their Master/Mistress, Dom/me, or which ever word you wish to chose.

A slave is not automatically responsible to run and do just anyone’s bidding, just because that person slapped to title in front of their chosen name. Matter of fact, I would say that a worthy slave would seek and search carefully whom they wish to give their gift of slavery too. A worthy slave, is not sold at a pretend auction, a fairytale BDSM Gore gathering like a second class human being, but is a free thinking, highly intelligent human being who has a lot of insight into their own psyche, their own needs and a willingness to go far above and beyond what is required of them in order to SERVE.

A smart slave brings immeasurable treasures to their Dom/me. Their willingness to grow in every area of their being, not only in BDSM terms, but in their vanilla and spiritual aspects as well! They become a vessel in so many ways, that it would take me at minimum 12 pages to explain it. You do not need to break the spirit of a slave, because if you break that spirit you also break that which is good and makes them that slave. All you do is cause harm on a level most could never fix.

A slave does not think of themselves, their worth lies in serving. To them it is as natural as breathing and to not have that ONE person in their life is as if a part of them is missing.

A slave spirit would never find it necessary to “short change”, to look out for themselves, because if they have chosen wisely they understand that it is their Masters/Mistresses sworn duty and privilege to make certain their slave is well.

If a slave has to doubt it, then we are in the middle of a problem.

A slave understands that everything they do is done ultimately for the ONE they serve. Be it the basic things like eating, exercising, meditating, cleaning themselves in order to be pleasant to look at and to be able to work hard. To work hard in order to provide for themselves and of course in financial domination also to provide for the needs and desires of their God/dess. To rest, so that their mind may be clear in their service. They do not manipulate, do not try to train themselves because they understand that to do such a thing is to slap their Owner in the face.

They do not make assumptions, but rather openly and honestly ask what they do not understand. They trust that the person they have researched, and wisely chosen will appreciate their honesty and see it as trust.

A slave does not seek to only do what is comfortable, but will go beyond themselves in order to achieve nirvana for themselves and their Owner. Nirvana here being the absence of fear, worry, strive and discord.

A slave is happy when their Owner is pleased with them. They NEED that “good boy / good girl” in order to advance. A slave understands deep down inside that discipline, rules and protocols are necessary in order to keep them moving forward and to keep them save.

A slave does not seek the praise of others, but is neither falsely humble. I find it disturbing when a slave sits and tells me that he/she does not deserve that praise but their Owner does. NO! You deserve the praise because you have taken pains to learn, to study, to practice and to live it. YOUR OWNER deserves a different and equally high praise. Which you have just robbed him/her off by your falsity. There I can see if you are just mouthing words or are truly understanding your station in life.

A slave is a slave at all times. Not just during a specific time. A slave lives, breathes, thinks and acts in the honor of his/her Dom/me at all times. They simply wish to bring honor to them. It is not a put on mantle, but a way of being which is as natural to them as breathing

A slave will seek to fix issues for their Dom/me before they ever arise fully. For example if you are lucky enough to go into a Restaurant with your God/dess and his/her friends together and you find that there are not enough seats, you will make arrangements that this is fixed before your Dom/me has to ask you to do so. You will simply smile, excuse yourself and fix the problem. Why should she/he have to worry about that, are you slave not smart enough to deal with it?

A slave understands that slavery has to endure in the real world, which means it isn’t always playtime. Matter of fact scenes and play time are rather seldom for a slave. Those are more in the real of a play pet or a submissive. I have always said the slave is the workhorse of the bunch. Their satisfaction is bringing joy, pleasure and happiness to that person. Not to garner for themselves. But by doing so, they have been rewarded as well.

Does that mean there are no limits? Oh please let us get real. Of course there are and must be. A slave is a human being with feelings.

Now in financial domination is your gift of slavery enough? No it is not, your slavery does need to entail the tangible service of financial gifts and service. But if you complain when your Dom/me asks you for something extra from time to time and you complain or make excuses you better rethink. Do you need to be able to fix it? Yes, find a way and above all be honest

If you can’t supply what is requested do not be rude about it. Do not avoid the subject, but rather be honest and polite. However, if it is constantly like that and you have to be forced to serve, I do not consider you a slave period.

Remember that slavery is a way of being, not something that is just for fun. Matter of fact, I know very few slaves who are having “fun” with this. They are however deeply filled and feel worthy at long last.