There seems to be a lot of misunderstandings among Ladies and boys about the various positions and contracts. Boys seem to think that they need to slut behind their Owner's backs, which is not necessary. It is much better to be honest up front if you are not able to be faithf
ul to one Lady, and find the right Lady, who is willing to embrace your weakness for the beautiful sex.

Not every position or contract is exclusive only! In my case, I hold 3 different categories for my Positions / Contracts. Furthermore, understand that not every Position is a Contract with me either; some are simply positions on honor bases.

Here are my categories as I hold them personally:

Exclusive Contract or Position:

I would say this particular one is pretty self-explanatory! You are under exclusive contract or position to me for the previously agreed upon time and within the commitment we have found suitable. You should be honored to place my name and your station with me on your profile, without me having to force you to do that, check up on it, or having to take your account information and do it myself. To me, it means a lot more, when I can trust you to the fullest extend of our D/s Relationship. I do not restrict Friendships (casual conversations) or Chatroom visits, as long as you behave in a way suitable to your station with me. If I find out however, that you are slutting behind my back, are causing problems or are in any other way brining dishonor to my name, you will find yourself in deep hot water. The least you will find yourself facing is a steep fine and penalty fee plus the humiliation of having to apologize publicly (usually on the first offense). The worst you will face is dismissal from my service.

Exclusive with slutting privileges:

Again self explanatory isn't it? I am your Priority at all time, but I will allow you a little "strange" enticement from time to time. Of course you will have to ask me for permission first, pay me a slut fee and if you are not under chastity a cum tax. I will either approve or disapprove the Lady of your choosing, so there is that added humiliation of having to come up with someone I find worthy
of sharing with. LOL. Nothing more humiliating then having your Goddess tell you that your taste and opinion sucks, and that you couldn’t tell a Domme from a horses Ass. Don’t you think so? No don’t worry, I do have several Ladies I find very well suited to share with, but not everyone makes my list of approval, needless to say. Of course, my Rules remain priority even during that session and you will NOT break them, even if she does try to counter them. I guess you will have to take her disciplinary action then, won’t you.  Of course you will report back to me after and tell me what you did or didn't do. If you do not perform up to my expectations, you will be punished by me. Yes, I may even go so far as to send the lady a report card of your behavior which you will pay her to fill out for you. LOL. Slutting will be restricted to a certain amount of times in a 3 months period and a max. tribute you are allowed to spend. Do not break that agreement under any circumstances. I find out you did it without approval or more then permitted, you will be one sorry little bitch! And I mean steep sorry. I have NO MERCY with liars and cheats. You will put my name and your permissions clearly on your Profile, plus will have my photo on your profile as well. All that will be explained to you at the time of contract or position.

Non-exclusive Positions:

Those will not hold contracts period. This is simply a position you agree to fill for me, for an agreed upon time frame. You are in no shape or form eligible for Ownership or UC due to this position. You are still able and often times even encouraged to continue searching for
the Domme of your dreams. However, I do require that you put it on your profile (at least now due to certain issues with boys lies lately) that you are filling this position for me, so the other Lady knows ahead of time that you are still under an obligation. She can then approach me directly and we can work out details between us.

As you see, where there is a will, their is a way to work around obstacles. The only thing that remains the same is who is in charge.

Boys: When approaching a Lady, ALWAYS be truthful with her. Honesty gets you a lot further, even if she is not one to ever share, at least this way you know from the beginning where you stand with her. There are a lot of jealousies (needless) between Dommes, but there are also a
lot of us Ladies who don't mind sharing, or even dominating you as a team. Matter of fact; some of us are almost specialized into that. So when you make your introductions, make sure to have a list of questions ready as well. Show us that you have a brain, in your big head, and can think for yourself.

Ladies: Instead of being obnoxious if a boy is a slut, consider the possibilities it opens up for to exert your power. Community ATM's are that because they don't want to be tied down *at least financially* to one person, because their attention span is so limited. Liars ALWAYS need to be punished. And I mean punished! But I think honesty should be taken into account as well and perhaps an agreement can be found.

What is your intake on that? Both sides are welcome to speak up!