Good morning dear Readers,
I hope the New Year is finding you well so far and that you had a safe slide into 2012. Mine was nice and quiet – just the way I like it. I don’t go out into the crowds on New Years or any other times you can find a huge gathering of drunk idiots in one place. Not my thing! Which of course is the perfect opening for today’s post about the ups and downs of forced intox sessions from the Mistress point of view!
Forced Intox Sessions and financial domination usually fit pretty well together since once again the guy is completely loosing his sense of control. Of course in that case the Mistress has to be double on the guard not only because it is one of those sessions where the excuses are tripled, but because the guy really doesn’t know what he is doing after a while. So you have to rein him in when he gets too drunk.
Since I like finishing things of with a positive note I want to get the downsides of forced intox out of the way first!
The excuses why he can’t make his tributes just tripled!
In some cases they may be legit, but in most cases they are a bunch of hogwash. Remember that when a guy is drunk he will promise you just about anything in order to push the envelope further, but will seldom follow through. For that reason, always end the session when he starts arguing with you the very first time about making a tribute to you that he agreed to or has offered himself, or when he uses the excuse that “his fingers don’t seem to want to work / he can’t seem to see the page well enough to do it”. Well honey if you are that drunk we need to stop right here, simply because pushing you further might just result in alcohol poisoning. We wouldn’t want to cause you harm, would we? Yes, boys, we can make excuses too. Of course there is such a thing as alcohol poisoning but the chances of you getting it is pretty darn slim. The point is – you stop behaving when it comes to paying up and the session is now over! Period and done.
Their manners become pretty shady the more they drink!
Most guys who are into forced intox are seldom classifiable as submissives to begin with. Most of the time they are just guys that want to be told to drink more, be used etc. They may be fetishists but not even that is always the case. Nobody likes to drink alone and forced intox sessions are great for guys that don’t have anyone in their life and have a fantasy of being under control to a powerful Mistress who is going to “abuse” and “use” them.
I am sure you have seen the whole ”beer muscle” thing in real life frequently and belief me it is no different when you are dealing with a lush online. They can go from being pretty nice at times to becoming raging assholes in 2.2 seconds once the amount it takes for them to lose their inhibitions hit. Personally the moment they start talking too much shit, calling me out of my name or acting as if they can be in charge, my sessions are over! It was fun while it lasted, but now the fun is over.
They think they are able to do things still they simply can’t safely!
Most drunks do not realize when they are no longer able to walk across the street to get more beer, or drive to the closest liquor store. You need to be able to judge if they are still safe to be allowed to be out in public. I usually send them on their beer run no later then their 2nd bottle for car, or 4th for walking across the street. I personally prefer that they are well stocked up before we even begin. I feel better knowing that while I am forcing them to get completely drunk and stupid they remain safe inside their home. This way the can’t hurt them-selves or anyone else.
Those sessions can become pretty drawn out at times and slow towards the end!
The more he drinks the less he is able to follow your orders. That is just a fact. Most of the time they seem to have an off switch somewhere inside their little brains that goes on half/half. Meaning they aren’t drunk enough yet to pass out, but they sure aren’t all together here anymore either. During those times you may have to repeat your orders 3 to 4 times and be patient for them to follow through. Most of those guys suddenly want to start babbling on about things that have nothing at all to do with what you are doing right now. I know that I wanted to brain a few of them a couple of times to get them back on track. The only thing you can do at this point is be patient, stop the session, or if he still pays start the timed fines to get him refocused.
Now to the positive!
Talking about amusing!
As long as they are still able to actually follow directions you can do some screwed up shit with those guys and they won’t even think twice about following through. You have to remember that the more they drink the less inhibitions they have. So sober he may never dress as Miss Piggy and make out with your version of Kermit the Frog on Video and post it to porntube, or as long as he is still dressed on youtube, but order it while he is drunk and no problem. Sober he may never use that cucumber to fuck his little ass and sing “Like a Virgin, touched for the very first time” on the top of his lungs for you to record, but drunk eh what do I do next Mistress? Yup, once they are drunk they are pretty much up for anything. Of course that in itself is hilarious too, because the more up they become the more down their little friends become. Limb dick anyone?
Talkative little Monkey’s!
For some reason when they are drunk you don’t even have to ask them to give you personal information on them. I swear those guys are lucky I never take them up on some of the shit I have been offered by them. I have been given their SS#’s, full addressed, credit card information, bank information and more. Hell I even know where their parents live including their phone numbers. Wife’s details… yup had them before too including all her most personal details. You know these guys really are a dream for someone who is into identity theft – they would hand it all right over wrapped up in a pink bow without ever being asked. For me personally? I won’t write this information down, now keep it anywhere near on my computer. I keep all my chats and emails, but I will erase those bits of information once we are done. I don’t want to take the chance that my computer ever gets hacked and someone gets that information on them. That is way too dangerous.
Of course it is great when you are dealing with a guy that is already under your consensual blackmail contract. Meaning that was all done and signed BEFORE he got drunk. Now you can really gather some evidence against him. Hilarious when they can’t even remember giving you all that shit afterwards and are wondering how the hell you know all this. On that note, NO I won’t allow a guy to sign one of my consensual blackmail contracts while he is drunk. He can buy it, but I won’t accept the turn in until after he has sobered up again. That is something you have to do while you are sober, not while you don’t know what the hell you are doing.
They have no concept of money!
On the pure greed level it can be pretty good as well. Well most of the time and only until they start their “I can’t seem to find the pay button Mistress BS”. My advice, take your tributes before they get really drunk. There is a fine line between drunk and too drunk. Once you hit the “too drunk” level the financial aspect of the game is over. I’ve had a guy send me a amazon.com e-certificate many time when I ordered a $20 one and he send me a $200 instead because he no longer knew what he was doing. Of course sorry buster, once I have it cashed in, you can whine the next day all you want. It is mine! On the opposite side I had guys try to pretend to be too drunk and send $20 instead of $200 before as well. In that case guess what for each “mistake” you make we just added another $50… try it again buster!
Now to the advice part for the new to forced intox combined with financial fuckery individuals. Most will call it financial domination, but I won’t. It is pure and simple financial fuckery, because you are not dominating him per se. You are getting the guy drunk and literally taking advantage of his state of stupidity. Let’s always call it what it is. You may order him around and make him do stupid shit for your amusement, but there comes a point when he will literally volunteer to do all sorts of things and sooner or later you do end up loosing control over him. The fact is that a drunk is almost impossible to control constantly and fully. So all you can do is enjoy the ride and take him for whatever you can get. Yes, I said it, you read it. I don’t belief in lying and if we all want to be honest with ourselves and each other that is exactly what it is.
As you have already read once he gets to a point of being too drunk or pretending to be too drunk (yes some guys are clever even being drunk lol) you won’t get a penny out of him. So always make sure you get a “buy in” at the beginning you can live with and get your tributes fairly early on and throughout. This way you won’t be sitting there with nothing but “hahaha” and nothing else to show for your time. Doing it on credit is a mistake. Yes, even I will still do that from time to time, but I go into it with the knowledge that I am standing a 90% chance of being ripped off. Doing it on credit means in my case I have already received the buy in, but since the guy has very little financially I am adding small tributes up like $5.00 a pop and let him pay up when he hits a certain amount. Of course most of the time you never see it. My last forced intox owes me $55.00 and I will never see it. I already wrote it off, but of course I will never play with the guy again and his Video is now on my clips4sale store so I can make my money back. Works for me. Oh and if you ever decide to do that, make sure you get a full permission first in your email and take a photo of his face and his ID clearly shown. YOu’ll need that paperwork to post it.
Make sure he is and remains safe. Doing forced intox with someone means you are taking responsibility for his safety at least to a reasonable level. Don’t let him get drunk and drive while you are in a session with him. What he does after you left him is no longer your responsibility, but during it is very much so. I usually ask them to eat something before we get started. That minimizes the chance of them getting too sick later and it also slows the process of getting drunk down a little bit.
Don’t drink with them! I know it is tempting for those of you Ladies who love to indulge in alcohol, but both of you being drunk is not a good idea. Remember what I said you have to try to keep as much hold of the situation as possible. Just like a guy will do all sorts of screwed up stuff when he is drunk, so will you. Unless you want to lose all respect later, stay sober.
Cash tributes are always great, but when it comes to forced intox you want tributes he can’t cancel after he is sober again. Let me suggest you use Amazon.com E-certificates or Niteflirt payments for those. Yes, he can try to cancel them, but it is a lot harder than many other options.
I think that is a pretty good start and I wish you fun and luck with it. Just remember – never drink and drive – know your limits and understand that once you are inside a forced intox session you are going to get “fucked up” boys!
Would you like to see an example of a forced intox session in progress? You can do this by visiting these links from the other night!
http://newmoneypigswanted.com/2012/01/forced-intox-session-chipmunk-beer-bitch-progress/
http://newmoneypigswanted.com/2012/01/chipmunk-beer-bitch-screwed-lol/
http://newmoneypigswanted.com/2012/01/promised-forced-intox-session-footage-chipmunk-beer-bitch-clip4sale/
He is a fine example of what I meant when saying if you give someone that drinks time on credit you get screwed. Yup he is the one that owes me $55.00 so guess whose ass gets pimped out now on film. Oh and I do have the copy of his ID on file and a Model Release type permission in my email including his SS# on it. Guess I am pretty safe publishing it.
Goddess Bella Donna
http://goddessbelladonnasempire.com
http://newmoneypigswanted.com
