Money greedy vs money hungry
Wednesday, August 24th, 2011Good morning dear Readers,
today I would like to discuss the difference between money greedy versus money hungry. Something a lot of people in the financial domination fetish don’t seem to understand or even consider. Is there a difference besides the wording? Yes, the difference actually can make a big difference on how a financial Dom conducts him/her self in behavior with you.
The word “hungry” comes out of a need for something. You are lacking a certain thing and now you are trying to fill that void. You are “hungry” for that item. Most people who are truly hungry are willing to do just about anything to gain the substance needed to become filled. To have their NEEDS met. In order to survive. They often have to swallow their pride at times, take on jobs or do things that they may otherwise not be willing to do in order to receive the “payments” to fill that hunger.
When a financial Mistress becomes “money hungry” she often lets her standards and principles slide in order to fill the quota of her needs. In most cases those are the ones who deal with guys they would usually reject out of hand, because their need for the finances may receive are so great. Hunger is born out of desperation and not something conducive to power transfers. In this case she is more willing to have the money slave “hire” her to become his “Mistress”. Tell her how to dominate him etc. With other words a roleplaying situation begins with her pretending to be in charge, but in actually the money slave – client holds the true power since he controls the situation.
The word “greedy” on the other hand comes out of wanting more of something you already own. In this case it is the rush of owning a thing that makes you happy. You don’t necessarily need more of it, but you want it. You enjoy accumulating it, seeing it grow, adding to it, playing around with it etc. You can do without it if necessary and not having it won’t hurt you in the least, but if presented with the right opportunity you will take it.
When a Money Mistress is “money greedy” she will enjoy the process of accumulation as much as the possessing of the actual thing. She already has all her needs met or is in the process of meeting them without a money slave having to give it to her, but she enjoys taking his money to add to hers just because it gives her a natural high. She becomes like the mythical Dragon who loves to hoard and sits on his treasure. However that doesn’t mean you get to call the shots. When someone doesn’t need what you have to give, but simply wants it their behavior becomes a lot different. They can easily reject you out of hand if you are proofing to be too much of a hassle or game player. She isn’t going to lower her standards for a couple of bucks! When she is in greed mode she will take and she will take mercilessly until she feels that it may hurt the source of her enjoyment too much. Remember those who are greedy usually know exactly how far they can push a source before it collapses. Since in this case greed is the driving force and the enjoyment to take over and over, she is not going to “harvest” you fully and deplete you completely. She wants to do this over and over again after all. So she will leave it off at some point that you may feel twinges but can recover, only to be drained again. To her the way of taking is as much a natural high as the product itself. You can’t force someone who is greedy to take only what you are willing to give, because it may just not be something she desires.
For example: If I want cash that day – you can offer me shoes until the cows come home and I won’t take them. I want what I want, when I want them and how I want it done or it is no good to me. With other words I remain in control and charge the entire time.
Have you ever noticed that most “greedy” people are extremely clever and manipulative? They need to be in order to reach their goal of enhancing what they already have. They understand the ways of the human psyche pretty well and know how to make others see their point in a way that makes them agree and obey. In that case showing a money slave just how much he “needs” to serve and sacrifice for her.
The combination of driving force is askew in the first case of money hungry and perfect in the second of money greedy.
Her greed feeds into the need of the slave to submit. The more he sees her enjoying the process of taking from him without the tension of needing to do so, the more he will need to give in the future.
If I am greedy I can easily say one day – “I am just not in the mood today to take from you, maybe I will allow you to give to me tomorrow!” Why because I am not desperate to have what you offer.
If I am hungry I can not afford to do so. I need to be willing to take all the time and from whomever offers it to me in whatever way they offer it to me. Not a good base for being a Money Mistress.
I hope you can see the difference clearly in the way I just described it. If you are a new Money Mistress make certain you will never get yourself into the situation to become money hungry, don’t fall prey to this sort of mind set and behavior.
Have other venues of income to cover your needs regardless of what they may be. In my case I am a writer, artisan, Pro-Dominatrix (and even there I am extremely picky who is allowed to serve me). I film fetish clips I sell, I work on Niteflirt as my Phone Domination Platform, I counsel online and a few more fetish and vanilla oriented entrepreneurial things in order to cover my bills and keep myself in food. This allows me to say ~ I want or I would like to have ~ instead of I need this!
Make certain you are in the same situation! Remember to be smart, never put all your eggs in the same basket. Plan ahead, save your money for days that are tougher and you won’t ever need to become “money hungry”.
Trust me Ladies being greedy is a lot more fun!!!
